Seven Principles for Making Your Marriage Work

This groundbreaking course will help you to stay together and stay happy while others don't. 

How the 7 Principles of Marriage Workshop Works

01

KEEP YOUR LOVE FROM DYING

Understand the hidden threats that lead to divorce and how to overcome them.

02

GROW CLOSER THROUGH CONFLICT

Turn towards each other instead of away, deal with solvable and unsolvable problems, and find common ground on sex, parenting, money, and more.

03

TRULY KNOW YOUR PARTNER

Build "love maps" to comprehend each other's hopes, stresses, joys, and needs.

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How We Can Help You Keep Your Marriage Solid

You got married to stay married and happy. So did everyone else. That’s what’s scary.

Couples who get divorced, and couples who stay together but are miserable, start out happy and hopeful. They lose what they had, often without fully understanding why. We offer hope. We know exactly what it takes to make a marriage work, to stay in love and to stay happy. We want to share the secret with you.

Here’s why:

Our training and our daily work is all about helping couples like you to keep the love you have or restore it if it’s waning. The wisdom and tools we offer you would usually require months of your time and thousands of dollars. However, there's a way to keep your marriage strong for far less than that.

And you need to realize, there is a cost to not dealing with this…

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If you Ignore Relationship Problems, They Just Get Worse

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What most people do when facing crumbling connections is read relationship books and articles, go to expensive weekend retreats, just try harder, and the list goes on and on.

But for most people, none of that works. Here’s why:

  • Relationship books may give you insight, but there’s no system for accountability, follow-through, or retaining the information. As a result, there’s little (if any) lasting change.
  • Couples’ retreat programs offer explosive initial change, but they also lack the support to keep couples and families from sliding into old patterns.
  • Just “trying harder” often means that mistakes are merely made more forcefully, speeding up the death of the relationship.

And what happens if you just do nothing?

If you just keep doing what you’ve been doing? Unfortunately, your marriage runs the risk of falling completely apart. You lose the closeness you once had. Separation, estrangement, and divorce are very real possibilities.

How We can Help You to Keep Your Marriage Together and Strong

Weve got an answer that works.

Here’s the story. We’ve read thousands of pages of marriage research and attended hundreds of hours of seminars. We’ve taken what we’ve learned and offered it to our clients over the past decade. We’ve seen what works in restoring marriages. We’ve also seen what doesn’t.

That’s when it hit us.

While couples’ therapy is right for some couples, others can get the results they’re looking for through “date night” marriage workshops which they attend once per week for four weeks. The timeline allows for application of principles over several weeks, checking in on homework, and troubleshooting problems. Best of all, the course itself is among the very best in the world.

In our research and experience, The Gottman Institute offers the most successful marriage courses to be found anywhere. Backed by decades of research and proven results, we have seen their principles and exercises save and solidify countless marriages.

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We have selected Gottman's “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” as the most intuitive and practical class to offer married couples.

This workshop this workshop covers such vital areas as:

Marriage myths that do more harm than good.

Turn toward your partner instead of away during times of stress.

Nurturing fondness and admiration. To have a positive view and deep appreciation of your partner, and express it.

Keeping love from dying.

Behaviors that lead to divorce (and how to overcome them).

 Turning towards each other and not away during conflict.

Solving solvable problems.

How to deal with unsolvable problems.

Reducing stress in marriage and overcoming gridlock.

Creating shared meaning. Develop the big and small rituals that help build the bond with your partner.

Money, sex, housework, parenting and...

The secret sauce: building "love maps" to meet one another's needs.

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Workshops offered monthly. Don't wait! Sooner is always better.

Session 1 - September 8th, 15th, 22nd & 29th.

Session 2 - October 6th, 13th, 20th & 27th

Session 3 - November 10th & 17th and Dec 1st & 8th

 

All workshops are Friday evenings from 6:00-9:00 pm. Refreshments will be provided. Register now!

It worked for us. It works for our clients. It will work for you.

Here’s what this material did for my wife and I. We attended a workshop facilitated by Kaela Judd, who underwent the rigorous training necessary to be a certified instructor. As we participated in the workshop, performing the exercises and having the conversations we were taught to have, I felt us growing closer together. Buried hurts came to the surface and were resolved. Previously unspoken hopes were expressed and we made specific plans to make them into reality. The stress we each carried inside melted away and we felt more unified than we’d been in a long time. This course strengthened our friendship.

What Other Participants Are Saying

This material has also worked wonders for our clients. Several of our couples attended this “Seven Principles” workshop, and here’s what they had to say.

D. and J.

Participating in this class has helped us so much to not turn away from each other when upset. We used to stay in a place of defensiveness, punishing each other with words or silence. Now we turn towards each other and seek understanding. Its made a huge difference.M. & D.

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The most helpful thing for us was participating in ‘stress-relieving conversations’ in the specific way we learned in the course. We used to talk over each other or tune each other out, focused on our own problems. Now we face things together.” C. & K.

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For the first time in our marriage we feel like we’re both able to get outside of our own experience and into each other’s. We finally feel like each understands what the other needs, values, and thinks. We’re not trying to change one another as much as accept one another now, and that’s actually helping us to change!” S. and L.

You will receive the benefits, knowledge and experience of working with the gurus of couples therapy, without having the expense.

It’s Your Turn

For only $175 you get FOUR FUN-FILLED DATE NIGHTS. That's 12 HOURS of top-shelf marriage training for about the cost of 1 HOUR OF THERAPY!

The course is facilitated by Kaela Judd, certified Gottman leader, Bringing Baby Home facilitator, and Prime for Life Instructor. She holds a bachelor's degree in Human Development and Family Studies from the University of Utah. She's joined our team to bring the workshop to you!

We will help your marriage thrive by:

Providing four consecutive “date night” workshops offering research-based principles for rock-solid marriages.

Giving you the support of a certified instructor who knows the material and has applied it to her own marriage.

The book, workbook, and other materials to refer to and learn from so you can keep your momentum.

Plugging you in to the wisdom and experience of other workshop participants.

BONUS! Our online conflict resolution course "Fight Less, Connect More " (a $247 value) to continue building a rock solid foundation.

What you are being offered here, if completed in a traditional therapy format, would cost you thousands of dollars and months of therapy. The “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” course will give you many of the same results in four weeks for about the price of one therapy session. What’s more, you can revisit the course material (videos, handouts, etc.) over and over again.

After finishing your course you will have the option of taking other relationship courses online on our membership site. If more support is necessary, our team of licensed therapists is ready to offer relationship coaching or family therapy.

You are 100% safe to try this out. That’s all I’m suggesting. Here’s what to do. Attend our date night workshop of “Seven Principles to Make Marriage Work” and apply what you learn. If you get immediate benefits in your relationships - and I think that’s exactly what’s about to happen – you can continue with the date nights. If not we guarantee a full refund.

If for some reason you’re not delighted with “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” then just let us know - and that will be that.

FAQ

It’s Decision Time

You have a choice to make.

Do you do what you’ve been doing (or worse, do nothing at all)? You know where that will lead. At best, things won’t get any better and at worst estrangement, divorce, and resentment are on the horizon. Is that really where you want to go?

Take a new action and get a new result. Try out our Gottman’s “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” workshop series. Finally get the happy, vibrant marriage you’ve always wanted, all in just a few weeks.

Which of those options do you really want for yourself? Here’s what to do now. CLICK HERE to sign up for our next series of “date night” workshops. Come and receive first-rate instruction on making your marriage endure and enjoy the lasting closeness, trust, and passion you've hoped for.

I look forward to hearing from you!

WHAT WE OFFER YOU

Four consecutive “date night” workshops offering research-based principles for rock-solid marriages.

The support of a certified instructor who knows the material and has applied it to her own marriage.

The book, workbook, and other materials to refer to and learn from to keep your momentum.

Connection to the wisdom and experience of other workshop participants.

BONUS! Our online conflict resolution course "Fight Less, Connect More " (a $247 value) to continue building a rock solid foundation.

We have selected Gottman's “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” as the most intuitive and practical class to offer married couples.

This workshop this workshop covers such vital areas as:

Marriage myths that do more harm than good.

Turn toward your partner instead of away during times of stress.

Nurturing fondness and admiration. To have a positive view and deep appreciation of your partner, and express it.

Keeping love from dying.

Behaviors that lead to divorce (and how to overcome them).

 Turning towards each other and not away during conflict.

Solving solvable problems.

How to deal with unsolvable problems.

Reducing stress in marriage and overcoming gridlock.

Creating shared meaning. Develop the big and small rituals that help build the bond with your partner.

Money, sex, housework, parenting and...

The secret sauce: building "love maps" to meet one another's needs.